I don’t care how long you’ve known each other / how many vows you’ve made to each other / how many moments you’ve made together / how often the two of you talk to your cat at great length like he’s a third person in the room who deserves equal attention and respect: YOU DO NOT KNOW HOW MUCH YOU LOVE A PERSON UNTIL YOU SEE THAT PERSON WHEELED AWAY IN A HOSPITAL BED WHILE YOU STAND THERE HOLDING THEIR UNDERWEAR IN A BAG.