Just when you think that all of your affairs are in order, all boxes checked, all relationships tended to and laundry done and  writings written and messages sent, YOU HAPPEN UPON THE SECRET ‘MESSAGE REQUESTS’ SECTION OF YOUR FACEBOOK PAGE AND IT IS FILLED WITH MESSAGES DATING BACK LIKE 2 YEARS FROM VERY NICE ACTORS AND AUDIENCE MEMBERS  THAT YOU NEVER RESPONDED TO AND SUDDENLY, ALL SANITY AND ALSO BETS ARE OFF, UNTIL OF COURSE YOU GIVE EACH OF THEM AN UNNECESSARILY THOROUGH REPLY, RIPE WITH RETROACTIVE APOLOGY.