Start simply, with your basic preferences. Gold or silver? Thin or thick? Diamonds or solid band? Lastly, what compliments your engagement ring, if you plan to wear it every day? Once you have narrowed it down, FIND EVERY RING THAT FITS THE PARAMETERS AND PURCHASE EVERY SINGLE ONE AND STACK THEM ON YOUR WEDDING FINGER UNTIL IT CAN NO LONGER BEND. ONCE THAT FINGER IS FULL, MOVE ONTO OTHER FINGERS. WHEN YOU ARE OUT OF FINGERS, GROW ANOTHER HAND.  WEAR ALL OF THE BEAUTIFUL RINGS BECAUSE HOW CAN ONE BE EXPECTED TO SELECT ONLY ONE RING, I MEAN I SELECTED ONE MAN FROM THE UNIVERSE TO BE MY HUSBAND, IS THAT NOT ENOUGH? MUST I REALLY KEEP DECIDING THINGS?!