Say, are you a woman? Are you trying to find love, or do you have love and are trying to better understand the love that you have? Do you have feels? Do you have ears? You MUST listen to this Dear Sugar Podcast series on Looking for Love. It’s three part series on anxiety / expectations, featuring interviews with Lena Dunham, Kate Bollick and a really smart Stanford Economist who basically boils romantic partnerships between human beings down to numbers, which is oddly soothing. Cheryl Strayed has a remarkable ability to speak to the very guts of worry, of fear, of love. LISTEN PERHAPS NOW.