I am a fairly effective Boss, but passive aggressively so. Boss Brunstetter placates me as I do Fun Things, like how sweet! how nice that you are having fun! That’s great, and integral to your success! You should definitely eat / drink / do that. But secretly, somewhere behind the eyes, she screams GET BACK TO WORK, LOSER! FIGHT FOR YOUR LIFE, OR LOSE YOUR BENEFITS! (of which I have none.)